Friday, May 22, 2009

Do Something Permanent

I've been frustrated lately. At the end of each day I wonder what it is I did all day. I know I'm busy all day long running around doing tasks, but at the end of the day I look around and don't feel as though I've accomplished anything. I've realized that the things I've been doing (and let's face it, they have to be done) are not permanent. They become undone by the end of the day. I sweep and mop the floor only to have food and dirt cover them again in a matter of hours. I clean up all of the toys just to have them scattered about as soon as Grace wakes up from her nap. I do the dishes and clean the kitchen just to have a mess again after the next meal is prepared and eaten. I wash, fold, and put away laundry only to walk past the hamper and see dirty clothes exploding out of it again. The things I spend my time on throughout the day just get undone and leave me with no feeling of accomplishment. I'm tired of asking myself at the end of the day, "What did I do all day?"
That's where the 'Do Something Permanent' part comes in. The things I spend my time on throughout the day are not permanent. They become undone by the end of the day. That's why I have decided I need to do something permanent each day. Such as, writing in a journal, catching up with an old friend, working on a creative project (sewing, scrapbooking, home improvement), reading to my child, reading from the scriptures or the Ensign, gardening, etc. (the list could go on and on, but you get the point). I have to make sure I make room in my day for those things. I'm a lot happier and feel like a better mother, wife, and person in general when I do something permanent in my day. I feel much more productive when there is tangible evidence of the hard work I've done. So, somedays the laundry may need to be put off, or I won't get the kitchen floor mopped. But that's okay because those things will just have to be done tomorrow too.

7 comments:

Brooks, Amber & Maggie Jo said...

I love this post. Thanks for reminding us all that we are not alone in our feelings of pointless duties. I agree that some days some things can just wait till the next day. I think sometimes we feel like we have to accomplish EVERYTHING like robots and forget to be mommies and wives. Brooks is always good about letting me let things slip to enjoy Maggie or the sunshine outside. That always helps me feel better about it too. I find I put way more pressure on myself than the people surrounding me. Good luck with your new adventures! I bet you will find all kinds of things you love doing that we never make time for in our busy lives!

Tatiana said...

I love this post too! That's so true that we do things that just get undone by the end of the day. Good thoughts! I'm going to try to do something permanent each day as well.

Ashley Bankhead said...

I completely agree. Thanks for the reminder.

Brooke Colvin said...

That is so true Amy! That was such a good reminder of the importance of doing something not only permanent, but something that we enjoy. It makes all of the neverending tasks a little more bearable :)

goodliffe family said...

Isn't it funny how we get so caught up in our list of things to do. Sometimes I forget that my boys are always the top priority on that list. They are so good to be pacified with this or that while mommy gets this or that done. My mom always tells me that the house and laundry will still be there in 20 years, but your boys won't need their mommy then. ---and yes we're glad to be bloggers finally

Monica&Kevin said...

I love this post! I was just thinking about this the other day. I was telling my mom how the routine of getting the house clean is pretty much perfected, but by 5 o clock when my husband gets home I think, wait, I didn't have time to do anything just for me! We all need to do a little sometime for ourselves don't we?

Monica&Kevin said...

*something :)